Swing Life Club

This site is all about non-monogamy, exploring that special desire you always felt, leaning into that secret kink you always had, or just enjoying doing those adult things that life has to offer, without all the drama. You only live once, right.

Loving Yourself When The Lifestyle Doesn't

February 23, 2023

Kermit the Frog sang "It's not easy being green". I suppose we all have our thing that it's not so easy being. There's always something we don't like about ourselves. Being in the lifestyle can bring some of these things we don't like to the forefront. Vulnerabilities that we may have been better at concealing in day-to-day vanilla life. Outside the lifestyle we don’t really put ourselves out there, but in the lifestyle, we take that risk. Isn’t it ok if we aren't always accepted fully? ...

Getting Off The Starting Line.

February 17, 2023

How to get started is a question that comes up all the time, and there are many blogs and podcasts that give advice on it. I want to start by saying that entering into non-monogamy will not save a relationship. The problems that a relationship has will be there in lifestyle too. So, while it might make your relationship more enjoyable because you have more social freedom and more people to relate too, it will not fix the problems that are there. Not only that, but the lifestyle comes with...

Whose Loofah-ing Now?

February 14, 2023

In the swinger/non-monogamous lifestyle, it has been long said that an upside down pineapple was the secret handshake for identifying others that have a similar interest. Some have said that because of the State of Hawaii, the pineapple represented, or does represent, hospitality and welcome. Or that it originated in Europe to represent welcome. I mean I am sure that way back when it was very hard to come by a pineapple, so it probably was a representation of many things positive and fortu...

Does Size Really Matter?

February 10, 2023

Let's get real. Of course, size matters. Anybody who tells you different is lying to you. And the minute you ask a lady that question, she knows that you ain't packin that anaconda she's been looking for. It seems to me that as human beings we have this weird obsession with trying to shove things into smaller things. We did it as toddlers all the time. I mean, we would look at that square block and say to ourselves, I am going to shove that into that frickin round hole come hell or high...

The Lifestyle Is Easier For Women, Right?

February 5, 2023

I have heard the phrase that men in the lifestyle don't choose, they get chosen. That makes sense. It's easy to think that because sex is involved that women have the upper hand. Men are a dime a dozen and they are always wanting. I have always believed that when it comes to the world of heterosexual interaction that women have the power to assert their dominance. I mean "NO means NO" right? Well, it means that no matter what, and that means that men can say "NO" too. Some people be...